Making Kindness Count


We’ve all heard the near-tragic story about a young man on his way home to take his own life only to be fatefully intersected by a stranger who shows him kindness. This stranger’s act of benevolence at the perfect moment in time restores the young man’s faith in humanity at the single most defining milestone in his life.

Alternatively, in the hit television series 13 Reasons Why which is being watched by impressionable teens across the globe, there is no life-saving moment that causes the main character to pivot and she does in fact tragically take her own life. This program has brought to light that it is in the subtle moments that we give power to the dark thoughts that bring us down.

I am by no means suggesting that being kind to others can eradicate mental illness and other forms of emotional pain. What I am, however, suggesting is that in a world that is at times incubated by fear, that we do our part to spread love and light. Tiny ripples can become giant waves that dissolve the boundaries that we have unwillingly placed upon ourselves and on others.

Let’s come together in unity and to make kindness count again; kindness for ourselves and kindness for others.

Everyone is fighting their own inner battle

Although life brings us so many joys and victories, it is undeniable that we each face our own individual struggles within our own minds that nobody knows about. Make every effort to find compassion for others—even when you can’t relate. Be kind.

Human connection is paramount

In a world where we are looking down at our phones more than we are looking up at the people around us, we need to revisit this idea of truly connecting with another human being and what that looks like for us. Be kind.

We are losing ourselves

Sometimes we get so caught up in making sure that everyone around us is OK and that other people’s perceptions of us are as we wish them to be, that we forgot ourselves in the mix. Practice self-kindness and know that your feelings and your thoughts matter. Be kind.

You make a difference

Our words, our energy and our light have the potential to impact another human being’s life in so many ways. Don’t take that power lightly. Be kind.

It feels good to be kind

Robert Ingersoll’s famous quote states “We rise by lifting others.” Supporting others gives us a natural high. Unfortunately we all get so caught up in the “busy-ness” of our own lives that it doesn’t cross our minds to do so. Take a moment and step outside of yourself and raise somebody up who needs your wings. Be kind.

Kindness is contagious

When people are in the presence of kindness, they can’t help but feel joyful. Expand your reach and watch all of those around you enliven in the presence of your warmth. Be kind

Small actions can have far-reaching consequences

There is no doubt that the human race is connected in more ways than we can quantify. When you do good, you cause a ripple effect on our planet that reaches the masses. Be kind.

You can be a voice for someone who doesn’t have one

Acts of altruism speak volumes for those whose voices have been silenced. Speak up for someone who needs it and you will give them the opportunity to learn how to speak on their own behalf. Be kind.

Somebody is watching you

We are so much more influential than we realize. The next generation is observing and picking up our cues and learning how to treat others. Set a good example by being an ambassador for thoughtfulness and mindfulness. Be kind.

We need to elevate the consciousness of the planet

The healing of the world begins with each of us. We have the ability to put out high vibe thoughts, high vibe words and high vibe energy. Let’s do our part. Be kind.

Kindness is in our nature

Human beings are intuitively geared to be good and do good. Fear is a learned emotion. Reconnect to the part of you that is love and allow that to guide your everyday interactions. Be kind.

Spread love

We have the same power to spread good as those who wish to spread hate do. Find a way to share your unique light. A simple smile or a positive thought on social media goes a long way. Be kind.

Just because

Do we really need a reason to be kind? Just. Be. Kind.

Melody is a women’s life & wellness coach dedicated to bringing girls’ empowerment to communities on a global scale. For more information visit and


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